Pay it Forward - Let's do it for the Possum
Hey to all my loyal posse out there this Friday April 26th.
The sun is shining in Ann Arbor. Yes, it IS true! Don't be cruel. We're sort of stuck here for now. Not nice to tease.
So, I need help today. Big time. I'm trying an experiment today. Just one day.
I'm trying to conquer darkness with light.
Here's where y'all come in. I've been posting my butt off lately on facebook. Every uplifting beautiful (fully and snopesed) article I can dig up. I'm going to all the websites with feeds about stories that inspire and bring us to that humbled, slack-jawed, tear-stained, snot-ragged place where we feel less alone and where we can see the beauty and majesty that lies within all of us.
I'm doing this in answer to the recent darkness that, not only Boston, but the entire world has experienced.
I figure we can only conquer darkness with light. We can't change the past but we can create the future. We can't keep dark forces from attempting to tear us apart. We just can't. We can't plan, prepare for, anticipate, etc. every negative thing. If we did, that would not be living. That would be "war" --- on the defensive, in a bunker, with armor on. Dude, that would suck. It does suck. What am I saying? We've basically been living that way as a nation (and a world) ever since 9/11. That's like 12 years of that crap.
What I need help with is this. This is just an experiment to see if it really works, this whole love thing. But I can't do it alone and I need feedback to see if there's any science to it.
What I'm asking is this: Can y'all take yourselves out there into the world and dump as much love, compassion, kindness, forgiveness, beauty, did I say love? as you can muster today? And yes I mean even to yourself when you schmutz on your clean shirt, even to the dingbat on the phone weaving in and out of her lane, and the impatient man at Starbucks and the smelly guy at the gym.
Just let it all go.
And then as soon as you see something positive online, post it. Like STAT! Email it to your friends. Just for today, let's tell each other MORE about the inspiring stories and gossip less.
This is my theory: We conquer darkness with light. It all starts with us.
As a caveat to my theory (it's not just MY theory, btw) I also think we inoculate ourselves against the darkness this way.
Anyway, so here's a short little bit of homework.
1) Do some random act of kindness for somebody you don't even know (pay for their coffee, tab, etc.)
2) Share an inspiring story with at least one person.
3) Forgive yourself for 1 thing you harbor against yourself and then just let that b***ch go!
4) Forgive one other person something (preferably somebody who you think really doesn't "deserve" forgiveness
5) Give me some feedback on facebook - just a line or a sentence telling me what you thought of the exercise. You can message me privately but better to let the world see.
I mean, this is all in the name of "scientific" research.
Now y'all -- HAVE AT IT!
Ps. I just heard that my favorite musician of all time has passed away: George the Possum No-Show Jones. Jesus, welcome this man into your loving embrace. Let's do it for the Possum.